Remembering Brenda McKay

Name: Ken & Judy Stevenett
With deep sadness we received the message of Brenda's passing. She was a wonderful person and we will miss her Thoughts and prayers to all the family...Ken and Judy Stevenett  Dunnville Ont.

From: Tony and Cheryl Harnack
Our deepest condolences to Paul and family on the tragic  passing of Brenda.  Memories are forever 💗.

From: SANDRA AND TERRY BROWN
SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS TO ALL THE FAMILIES

 

From: Phil and Linda Carter
Paul, Melissa, Scott and Family: 
We were saddened to hear of Brenda's passing.  What a wonderful person she was.  She will be missed. Our thoughts are with you and your family through this difficult time. Phil and Linda

 

From: Bruce and Cherine
Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss of a beautiful Wife,Mother, and Grandmother. Truly a lovely person. Speedy recovery Paul. God Bless

 

From: Rick & Paula Trombley
Our deepest sympathies & condolences to Paul & family. Know that your Paramedic family is always here if you need us.

 

From: Susan Galbraith
Dearest Donna and Ivan....So terribly sorry to hear of Brenda passing and wish to extend my families sympathy to one and all. Heaven has another angel and may God comfort you in your loss.

 

From: Grant & Mary Swartz
Our deepest condolences to the entire family.  Brenda was a wonderful woman.

 

From: Nancy and Larry Watson

Dear Paul, Melissa and Scott... We are sorry and saddened to hear of the tragic accident and passing of Brenda! What a fantastic lady... the many stories, memories and just great times had, that she infused into our before and after hours of “Chatty Angels” games! Her smile was infectious and her passion was her family! She will be forever in our thoughts and always in our hearts... We send positive hugs to all of you in your time of grief... for Brenda touched everyone she knew in such a special way!

From: Nuri Hirji
Our deepest condolences to you and your family;  may God rest the departed soul in eternal peace. Amen.      
Loft BSTR team

From: Christine Gardner
To Scott and family, It's as if all the lights went out at once. Without your Mum, it's just dark and hard to find your way.  I am really so sorry you have lost your mother Scott, I want you to know I'm thinking about you and wishing you comfort with your family over the next while.  
Memories are like little lights...Christine

From: Melanie Norton
Scott and Family, I am so saddened to hear of your dear mother's passing. She sounded like a wonderful person and I will remember her fondly. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

 

From: Nelson Hellyer
Paul,Scott,Melissa, Albert and family. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.
My thoughts and  prayers are with you all.

 

From: Heather McDonald
On behalf of LOFT Community Services where Scott McKay has been a leader for many years, we are so saddened by your loss.  Scott has always shared with us his close bond to his special, loving family.  Our deepest condolences to Scott and his family.

 

From: Cathy and Bob Hansler
Bob and I met Brenda when she became a member of our Scouting group’s group committee. We also knew her from the Chatsworth Legion. She was a great lady. She could make you laugh one minute and serious the next. She would do anything for you when she could. Like all others whose lives she enriched, we will miss her.

From: June and Frank Benedict
To the  McKay and Ramsay families: We just heard tonight (Aug. 10th) of the terrible accident that took such a beautiful woman. I (Frank) worked with her at Echo Transport. What a beautiful picture with that lovely smile. That is the way we will all remember her. We pray for a great recovery for Paul. Cherish the wonderful memories of happy times together as you grieve. June and Frank Benedict, Abbotsford, B. C

From: Don and Elaine
Our deepest sympathies to the McKay family.  Although I never had the opportunity to meet her in person.  We know Paul through hockey and some wonderful times fishing with him up north. We hope that your family has many wonderful memories of Brenda.  Also we hope Paul recovers quickly from his injuries.  Don/Elaine Shropshall

From: Dan Martin
My deepest sympathy and thoughts to Paul and his Family. God Bless Brenda.

From: Shirley Clark
To the McKay family,  Brenda was a partner, wife, mother, grandmother, friend, worker. We were very lucky to have her in our life. Her wonderful husband and family will miss her, but we need to remember what a  special person she was , and how much she has left us with. Peace and love to all  she left behind. Shirley Clark

From: Jane Morrison (Wheildon)
My thoughts and prayers are with the McKay families.

From: Mike and Jen McCoy and family
Our deepest condolences to the McKay family, our thoughts and prayers are with you

From: Dennis & Elaine
We are so sorry to have heard of this terrible accident that took  Brenda from you, Scott, Melissa & (Albert) way to soon. Also keeping you in our thoughts for a speedy recovery to be able to get home and be with your family and friends at this time.

From: Bill Millman
To Paul and the McKay and Ramsay family, I would  like to extend my sincere condolences on the sudden and tragic passing of Brenda. May the memory of Brenda always be a blessing. Sincerely, Bill Millman

From: Ray and Gayle Gleadall
Our deepest sympathies. Brenda will be greatly missed. We continue to pray for Paul’s recovery and the family.

From: Jim and Betty Anne East
We are so very sorry to hear of Brenda's heartbreaking passing. She was a wonderful caring woman. Our deepest sympathies to you Paul, Melissa & Albert and Scott and your families. The love of your family and friends, as well as your many memories, will help provide support during this time of great sadness. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Paul, as you recover from your injuries. Rest in peace Brenda!

From: Cathy (Clark) Garrett

What a great loss! Condolences to all the families,. You are in my prayers. Brother Paul, you became a member of our family many, many years ago. You have always been a very special friend to Bob. They will be there for you and your family to help walk this new road. Take advantage of the support of friends and family. Be patient with yourself during your recovery.

From: Joanna Ramirez
Scott and Family, I am at a loss of words for the tragic passing of your Mother. Through the stories you shared of your family, I know how special she was. Please find comfort in one another during this difficult time and keep those memories close to your heart. You’re in my thoughts.

From: Keith and Laverne Moore

With deepest sympathy to the McKay and Ramsay families. Thinking of you and hoping you know your sorrow is shared. May the many memories you cherish, help you through this difficult time. Keith and Laverne Moore

From: Sherry and Suzanne Gordon
Paul, Scott, Melissa, Albert and family; Our sincere condolences on the passing of Brenda. Her unconditional love and kindness towards our family will be cherished forever.  We are praying for your recovery Paul. Love and hugs Sherry and Suzy

From: Janice & Lorrie Fries

Dear Paul & family we are so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the Ramsay family

 

From: Magdalene Yeung & Karen Ho
Dear Scott and family, Our deepest condolences and sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

From: Theresa Hank & Carlos
Our family was very blessed to have Brenda be a part our lives and are deeply saddened by her untimely passing.  Joyful memories of her will be held in our hearts. We pray for healing to Paul and family. All our love and deepest sympathies Theresa Hank & Carlos

 

From: Beverley McKay
We are so extremely sad to learn about Brenda’s sudden passing.  We hold your entire family in our hearts and sincerely wish Paul as safe and speedy recovery as possible.  Beverley McKay,  Heather, David and Scott (all members of the late Wilmer (Wim) McKay’s family.)

 

From: Sylvia Madill
Penny and Terry, I am so sorry you lost your sister and friend.

 

From: Suzanne Saulnier
Dear Scott and Family -- my deepest sympathies are being sent to you Scott and the entire McKay family in the tragic loss of your Mom. Although I never had the opportunity to meet her in person, I feel that I knew her through all your wonderful stories .  Your family has lost an amazing lady and I am truly sorry.  I hope that together you will find comfort in the beautiful memories.  "Grief never ends.  But it changes.  It's a passage, not a place to stay.  Grief is not a sign of weakness, nor a lack of faith.  It is the price of love."

From: Donna Blanche Smith
Brenda was a wonderful lady to work with while my time with echo transport. Our thoughts are with the family and hoping the very best for Paul.

 

From: Bob and Mary Clark
Our deepest sympathy to Paul, Scott, Melissa, Albert and Family.  Brenda was an example of goodness and she will live in our hearts forever.  Paul, we will be here for you and your family at all times. Love Bob and Mary

 

From: Dale Gamble
So sorry for you loss Paul & family.  She will be missed by many.

 

From: Lisa and Rick Hartley
We are so sorry to hear of Brenda's sudden passing.  I have so many memories of Brenda from my Chatty Angels days.  She has gone from an Angel on earth to an Angel in heaven.  Thoughts and Prayers to all of Brenda's family.  Stomper & Icky

From: Ted and Lil
Paul, Missy, Scott and family. Our heart is broken on hearing of your tragic loss.. RIP Brenda. Our condolences to Penny, Terry and all the rest off her very close family. Wishing Paul a speedy recovery..HUGS to all.

 

From: Domenic & Sheila Michelangelo
Brenda will be sadly missed by all who knew her. She always made us smile . She had a way about her that just made you feel comfortable & liked.  Our sincere sympathies go out to all the family.  R.I.P. dear friend.

 

From: Doug & Judy Edwards
Our hearts are very heavy with the news of the accident and the passing of Brenda. We have many ball, hockey and lake gatherings memories of what fun we had in your company!  Our sincere sympathies to Paul , Melissa & Scotty.  We also extend our sympathies to the McKay and Ramsey families on the early and tragic loss of your loved one. Hugs to all! And please know that we as well as the community have your back's . Speedy recovery Paul

 

From: Tamara Oomen
Scott and family, I am so sad for your loss, it is just heartbreaking! I can't imagine what you are going through right now. Scott, I remember your stories about your family - there was always such warmth and love and humour. I hope that you can be a comfort to each other during this time. You are in my thoughts.

 

From: Linda Clarke
Paul, Melissa, Scott and all your families.  My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you at the tragic death of Brenda.  May the many happy memories that you share help ease some of the pain that you are experiencing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers .

 

From: Laurie Givens
Paul, Melissa and Scott; Sending you our deepest condolences on the passing of Brenda. We will keep you in our thoughts during this very difficult time. Scott and Laurie Givens

 

From: Dianna Brown
My thoughts and prayers are with you

From: Gabrielle Bochynek
My deepest condolences to the McKay family.  Heartfelt sympathies, Scott

 

From: Warren and Gayle Callahan
Paul and family, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Brenda and hope your recovery is a smooth one.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.

 

From: Betty Riddell, George and Cheryl Prentice
We are very shocked and saddened to hear about this tragic accident. We are thinking of you and send our  condolences to your family .

 

From: Grey Motors Mazda
Dear Paul and family; so terribly sorry, our thoughts and prayers are with you

 

From: Kim McComb
Paul, Melissa and Scott, we can't express how very sorry we were to hear about Brenda. Please know that you'll all continue to be in our thoughts. Kim and Chub McComb

 

From: Jan and Don Kopplin
We are so saddened by this news. We extended our thoughts to Paul,Melissa ,Scott and family. Our memories go to all the Oldtimer's times .

 

From: Bill and Lori Girdler
Our heartfelt condolences to the McKay and Ramsay families.

 

From: Anne Simkins
I worked with Brenda and her sisters at Edwards. I am so sorry for your sudden loss of your sister, wife, mother and grandmother . She was a kind and nice person and she will be missed by her family,and many friends.

 

From: Kay Simpson
Penny and Terry, so sorry to hear of the loss of Brenda. She will be missed. My thoughts are with you at this sad time. Hugs and condolences to you.

 

From: Carolyn & Peter Marx
Thoughts, prayers and hugs to the McKay and Ramsay families.  Brenda was an amazing lady that touched the lives of so many.  Her humour and stories during our Chatty Angels days are fond memories cherished today.  Sending positive healing vibes to Paul as he recovers from this tragic accident.

 

From: Joepelin Sagayaga
To Scott and his whole family, 
I am very sorry to hear this very sad news! My heartfelt condolences sympathy to all! May God gives you comfort in this difficult time.

 

From: Lili Anne Holding
I am so sad and send my condolences to the McKay family on the loss of your wife, Mother, Grandmother and loving friend. Keep her memories alive and tell happy stories.

From: Bryan and Marilyn Russell
We are so saddened to hear the news about Brenda.  Condolences to all the families... Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

From: Art & Leslie Hurst (Woods)
Our sincere condolences to Paul and the McKay and Ramsay families.  I can't imagine the pain you are all feeling right now.  Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Hoping you have a speedy recovery Paul and you can come home soon.

From: Lui and. Louise De Lisio
We are thinking of Paul, Melissa, Albert, Scott and Brenda's darling grandchildren and the Ramsay and McKay families during these difficult times.  May Brenda's kind memories always stay in your hearts.  Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

 

From: Steve & Peggy Quinlan
Paul and family, Penny & Terry, our thoughts and condolences go out to you at this difficult time.

From: Alein Atkinson
Paul, Penny, Terry and families, our deepest sympathies during this tragic loss, Alein Atkinson and family

 

From: Derek Granger
Paul, Melissa and Scott , I am so sorry for your loss . I can only send condolences at this time but you all are in my thoughts . Brenda was a bright spark, gone too early .

 

From: Debra Walko
Scott - on behalf of your LOFT colleagues, I am sending our deepest sympathies to you, your Father, Melissa & Family on the profound loss of your Mother.   We will hold all of you in our thoughts and our hearts at such a sad and difficult time.  Many of us felt your Mother's generous spirit and joy for life when you told happy stories and fondly spoke of her and could tell the kindness and beauty she brought to those around her ~

 

From: Sharon Martin
We are so very sorry to learn of your loss of Brenda. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this trying time. Prayers are with Paul and his recovery.

 

From: Bill and Tracy Gaunt
Dear Paul and family, we are so sorry to hear about the tragic loss of Brenda. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

 

From: Carissa Horton
I am so sorry to hear of Brenda's sudden passing. Sending my love and prayers to Paul and Family

 

From: Doreen Peach

My sincere condolences to Paul, Melissa, Scott and family. My prayers go to Paul for a speedy recovery. And my prayers go to the family for their tragic loss, from the Peach family

 

From: Lois and Larry Barber
Paul, Scott, Melissa & family.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you.  Brenda was such a special friend and will be dearly missed.  
Love Lois and Larry

From: Peggy Uttley
Paul & family; Terry & Penny.   Please accept my deepest condolences in the loss of Brenda.  She will be greatly missed.  She was a lovely and happy lady and always had a smile.  Paul I wish you a speedy recovery from your injuries. Peace be with you all.

 

From: Lee-Anne (McNabb) Cochrane
The entire community is mourning the tragic passing of Brenda and is embracing Paul with healing thoughts and prayers as he recovers from this horrific accident.  I think of Brenda with a smile when I recall the Chatty Angels days when she showed up ready to play ball with a twinkle in her eye,  her hair perfectly coiffed and the lipstick applied, anxiously waiting for the post-game social hour to begin.  She touched the lives of so many.  Sending heartfelt sympathy to the McKay and Ramsay families.

 

From: Eldon and Betty-Jean Silverthorn
Paul, Melissa, Scott and all the Ramsay family. No words can express the sadness we feel about the tragic loss of Brenda. Our hearts and thoughts are with you and all the families at this very difficult time. Our prayers are with you Paul as you recover.

 

From: Marilyn

We are so saddened to hear the new about Brenda..Our condolences to all the families...

 

From: Karen O'Connor
To Scott and Family, my deepest sympathies to you and your family at this time. We at LOFT are thinking of you  all.

 

From: Ken & Cathy McCoy
Our sincere condolences to all the McKay families.

 

From: Bonnie Bartley
So sorry for your loss, thinking of you Paul and Family’s at this time, sending our love and prayers. Clayton,Bonnie Bartley and Family

 

From: Lanny and Eleanor Baker
Our deepest sympathy to Paul, Melissa & family, Scott and all of the Ramsay family on this tragic loss.  Always enjoyed chats with Brenda and hearing the family news, she was so proud of you all.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you Paul, as you recover from your injuries.

 

From: John and Chris Vlielander
Paul, Melissa, Scott and Family, sending our deepest condolences. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.  John and Chris

 

From: George and Lynn Kiddle
So sorry to hear of this tragedy.  Our sincere condolences to the family.

 

From: Brenda and Richard Scott
Dear Paul and families, we are saddened by Brenda’s tragic death! Such heartbreaking news! Our thoughts and prayers to each and especially you Paul on your recovery!  Love Brenda and Richard Scott

 

From: Kyle Wilkinson
Paul, Melissa, Scott and families.  
I’m heartbroken to hear of Brenda’s passing.  Our deepest condolences go out to your family during this time.  I’m sending my thoughts and prayers to you Paul on your recovery.  Get well my friend. With sympathy, Kyle

 

From: Pauline & Pam Duncan Paula Bye
Our sincerest sympathies to the family.

 

From: Dan and Lorelei
Dear Paul, Missy and Scott our heart goes out to you and Brenda’s family during the unexpected tragic loss of Brenda. I cannot begin to image the pain and sorrow that you and your families are going through. You are all in our  thoughts and prayers. May  the love of family and friends help to support you during this incredibly difficult time.

From: Marilyn McComb
I am so sorry to hear of Brenda's death   Very saddened with her life taken way too soon   My thoughts and prayers are with you all

From: Fay Vlielander
So sorry for the loss of Brenda, my condolences to the family

 

From: Diana Livingston
Paul and family, I am so sorry for your loss and are thinking of you all in this so difficult time. Many thoughts, hugs and prayers. Diana Livingston and family.

 

From: Steve and Carol Tomalin.
So sorry to hear of this tragic accident. Our thoughts and prayers for the family. Condolences. The Tomalins

 

From: Ron & Jan Ingram
Sorry for your loss Paul ,Melissa & Scott and your families  She was a wonderful, caring , lovable woman who always had a smile on her face

 

From: Karen Henry
I would like to express my sincere condolences to both Paul’s  and Brenda’s family on the tragic loss of such a BEAUTIFUL person. I am totally in shock by what has happened. You will be missed greatly RIP Brenda

 

From: Ted and Bernice Potter
Dear Paul, Missy, Scott and families...so sorry to hear about Brenda.  At this difficult time, caring, comforting and peaceful thoughts are all around you.  With deepest sympathy for your loss, Ted and Bernice Potter

 

From: Alex and Sally Beirnes
Our sincere sympathy to all the McKay families.

From: Ron and Marilyn Armstrong
We are saddened for your loss Paul and family

 

From: Joan, Chris and Steven Briggs
Our deepest condolences to all of Brenda's family.

 

From: Lorraine Dunning
Penny and family- I am so sorry to hear about your sister’s passing.  My heart goes out to you.

 

From: Sharon Kennedy
Paul, I am so sorry.  I have no words to give you comfort now but know you are in my thoughts.  Sharon

 

From: Don & Betty Anne Riddell
So very sorry to hear of Brenda's passing in such a tragic way. Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family and our prayers are now with Paul whom we hope fully recovers. God bless you all in this time of sorrow.

 

From: Berhane Alemu
Scott, just read email from Deb, I am shocked and saddened to hear the tragic loss of your mother. My deepest sympathies to you and your loved ones, may the Lord rest her soul in peace. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

 

From: Bob & Cynthia Cook
We are very sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. Our thoughts are with the family.

 

From: Phil and Linda Carter
Paul, Melissa, Scott and Terry, Penny and families: We were shocked and saddened to hear of Brenda's death.  Such a caring, giving and happy person.  So hard to believe.   Brenda was always  happy talking  about her grandchildren whom she adored.  May our thoughts and prayers be with you through this difficult time.

 

From: Paulette Walker
I’m so sorry Paul, thinking of you and your family.

 

From: Bob and Ruth Anne Ceaser and family
So sorry for your loss. She will be greatly missed.

 

From: Thelma Fligg
I am so sorry and shocked by the passing of Brenda; and am sorry for Paul and the children. I worked with Brenda for several years and she was a good friend who I was always happy to run into in Owen Sound Stores, We had lots to chat about. She was a very caring and thoughtful person, and I know everyone will miss her in the coming times they always shared. My thoughts Melissa and Scotty in taking care of Paul; will be a hard time for all, Thelma

 

From: Bev Walker
Our deepest condolences to the McKay Family

 

From: Bruce & Yvonne Skinner
Paul Missy Scotty and the rest of the family our condolences on the loss of Brenda. We have wonderful memories of this beautiful lady.  May Your family memories you have stay in your hearts forever and help you get thru this difficult time.

 

From: Elaine Lang, Bonnie Little, Ted Jordan
There are no words to express the sadness we feel for Paul and his family.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

 

From: Judy Grant

My deepest condolences to Paul and family. Brenda will be greatly missed.

 

From: Linda Hoffman
My deepest condolences Paul to you and your families.

From: Carol and Melv Deering
Missy and Scotty, We were so devastated to hear the news, we pray for the recovery of your Dad, I have not heard about his condition.Your mother was a sweet and fun loving lady and she will be missed. Such a tragic way to leave this world. God bless all of you.

 

From: Jim and Sharrie Brick
To all members of the McKay and Ramsey families we extend our sincere sympathy. Such a tragic end to a life well lived. Our prayers are with Paul for a full recovery.

 

From: Larry Becker
Sorry to hear of this tragedy.. My deepest condolences to the family..

 

From: Tracee Givens
Our heartfelt sympathy being sent to all family who unfortunately have lost such an amazing lady in their life. 
Our arms are around each you during this difficult time. 
Rest in peace Brenda, you will be missed by many.

 

From: Bill and Bonnie Stewart
We were saddened to hear this news.  Sending our condolences to Paul, Melissa, Scott and family.  Lots of memories we will cherish from the slow pitch and hockey days.  Shakey and Bonnie

 

From: Inglis and Faye Phinney
Our heartfelt condolences go to you on the passing of Brenda. Melissa and Scott , your mother always loved to talk about you and the grandchildren with pride. Penny and Terry we know Brenda will be so missed by you. Prayers and thoughts to all.

From: Paul & Jackie Pringle

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family at his tragic time

 

From: Neil and Doreen McKay
Sending heartfelt sympathy to the family of Brenda ... words can not express the shock and sadness we feel !   To the family of Brenda and Paul, Penny and Terry and all ...  so very sorry !

 

From: Sandy Miller
My sympathy to the family.  I feel your pain.

 

From: Marilyn Clock

So sorry to hear of the tragic passing of Brenda. She worked for me for many years at Echo Transport and was such a great worker and a great lady. We had many laughs. She will be dearly missed. My condolences.

 

From: Larry & Donna Croft
What a tragic end for a good person that she was . So sorry for family

 

From: Joyce and Bob Downey
Our deepest sympathy. Brenda was always such a willing worker when we had dinners, pansy sales, etc at Chatsworth United Church. She will be so missed

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